--Dario Fo
About a year ago something happened that you only hear about to other people. My Dad was diagnosed with Cancer. I remember being on the phone with my sister when she told me and I immediately burst into tears. I began to think to myself and ask why? Why was this happening to the best man I've ever known. My Dad is my rock. He brings me back down to reality when my head is in the clouds. It felt like everything was crashing down. My Dad was hurting, I was having relationship troubles with my boyfriend at the time, and trying to pay off a student loan. It was just crazy time.
Daddys girl :)
A couple months ago someone in my family was diagnosed with Schizophrenia. I am terrified. Schizophrenia is a chronic brain disorder that affects 2.4 million Americans in a given year and more than 24 million people worldwide. It's crazy to think that it happened to someone in my immediate family. Sometimes I wonder why my family is being punished. I don't hear stories about this happening to any of my friends. But sometimes we don't like to spill secrets about our family. Today was just a bad day for them. Hospital visit today and we won't know what is going on till after 72 hours. I don't know what to do.
But after everything that has been going on and talking to my Dad while I visit my family every Sunday, he has taught me a lot about time.
Time with your family and your time alone with God are the 2 most important times for me.
I didn't know how far along my Dad was with his Cancer, so I decided every Sunday I would make the drive to Piedmont to spend time with him. My mom told me that some days he would be in a lot of pain from the radiation or the medicine and other days he would be fine. Sometimes I would go into my parents room and see my dad taking a nap and I would go in there, lay beside him, hold his hand, and just pray. My time is limited with my dad. Hes getting older and fortunately the Cancer is gone for now. He told me that life happens everyday and I'm just wasting my precious time being caught up with silly things and silly boys. I'm getting older and I need to go back to school. I have so many things I need to do before its too late. But the one thing I don't need to rush is Love.
When I was 18 I was currently working at a Day Care and Sonic. I loved working at the daycare with all different age groups but mostly the Elementary kids. I knew I always wanted to be married and have kids at a young age. I told myself, when I turn 22 I want to be engaged or married and to have kids by 23 or 24. Now coming up on my 22nd birthday next month, I am single. And you know what?? I'm completely ok with that. I recently just got out of a bad relationship with nothing to show for it. I sometimes feel like I wasted so much time, money, love. Everything. But I didn't. My dad says its all preparation for my future husband. I man that will take me as I am. Love me for me. And will not waste my time. He says love is something you don't rush into. It's something that will be there forever. So I'm taking his word for it. Even if I don't get married till I'm 30, I'll be ok with that. I need to get my self together and become a better person. I have to for my sanity.
When I fall in love, I'll take my time. There's no need to hurry when I'm making up my mind.
--Jason Maraz
im still breathing
--april
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